What can I say, I'm just not very much of a people person, and not at all outgoing. I know all jobs involve interacting with other people to some degree, but are there any sorts of jobs out there where I will pretty much be left alone to do my work, not have to work that closely with others, and not have to deal with customers all day?
What kind of jobs involve the least amount of interaction with others?
how about a morgue. those people are dead. or maybe data entry, or something ,.. yeah i dont like being around people either they get on my nerves..
Reply:Graveyard shift Security Guard.
Reply:Yes, I am looking for the same kind of job, but not a security guard, morgue worker, or low-paying job... something high-paying. I am actually a very nice person, but have difficulty dealing with confrontation. Offices have a lot of politics, jerks, gossip, etc. and I do not want to deal with it anymore. I can not bring myself to change my ethical litmus test by using the only method that confrontational people respect, that is, insults, embarrassment, backstabbing, or feigned friendship.
What high-paying jobs are out there for intelligent, skilled, people, who are too sensistive to deal with interpersonal work-stressors?
Please do not reccommend "growing a thick skin." I have already tried that and it is not accomplishable. Also, while the book "Winning Friends" is instructional, I find the methods manipulative, and I cannot bring myself to implement them consistently. Yes, I have tried.
Reply:I suppose you could get a paper route, or deliver the mail. I would suggest trying to build yourself up into a people person. People people generally make more money. Try reading a book like "how to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie or "how to start a conversation and make friends" by Don Gaber. You're not the only one who either doesn't like, or is afraid to interact one on one, face to face with people, but I think you will be much happier learning to deal with people than finding a way to avail them. I hope this helps.
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